True love is not safe. True love is a lot of things Love is patient, love is kind. Love is light, love is warm. As I once described it: “Love is my trump card, my winning lotto ticket, my night-light, my soft blanket, my wide smile, my huge hug. Love is my hope, and...
#thankyouthursday gratitude (and other blog posts)
Green apples are basically the best and that’s all there is to it but I will go ahead and explain further anyway
Green apples are just great, and I am grateful for them. I could say more, but do I really need to? No, of course I don't. But even so, I will. Allow me to sing the praises of green apples Perfect snack This magical fruit is both sweet and tart, lightly crisp and...
The secret to (im)perfect popcorn, or how failure can be delicious
I make delicious popcorn. Like, seriously, there is nothing a microwave or even a movie theater can do that compares to what I can create with a saucepan, some coconut oil, and pink Himalayan sea salt. Of course, it wasn’t always this way. Practice makes (im)perfect...
My snake plant surprised me with a great lesson about how stress can lead to unexpected growth
I am in a wonderful long-term relationship with a snake plant. For the past four years, I’ve somehow managed to keep Planty alive. His survival is significant since, before him, I did not believe I could sustain the life of anything outside myself. Snake plants are...
I tried Rothy’s because I wanted work shoes that felt like slippers. Plus they are sustainable fashion.
I don’t really care that much about sustainable shoes. But I do care about comfort and fashion (pretty much in that order), and so I was very curious when I heard about Rothy’s. Rothy’s claim to be comfortable and fashionable and also eco-friendly. (They are made from...
Let’s take a moment to remember that ice cubes are miraculous.
Straight up, I am grateful for ice cubes. I barely even use ice cubes. But still I am grateful for them, because if you think about it, being able to change the physical state of water from a liquid to a solid whenever we want to is pretty miraculous. Also, yesterday...
If you don’t think rest is important, look at what happened to my pet plant, Shammy.
Rest is important. Like, maybe more important than anything else. I know this, to the marrow of my weary bones, and still I have not been getting enough. Fortunately, I also know how to course correct. (You can start a diet in the middle of a sandwich, remember?) And...
Every sandwich can be a life-changing sandwich. (It’s all in how you eat it.)
At first glance, this might not look like a life-changing sandwich. And to be honest, it wasn’t. It was delicious, but that’s about it. However, it was so delicious that I was filled with gratitude. And I was filled with so much gratitude that I took a picture....
Collective compassion makes it possible for us to all keep caring
I don’t want to believe compassion has limits. But sometimes I feel like I’ve reached mine. It’s not that I stop caring—I don’t, and frankly, I don’t think I could. It’s just that I can’t have all the feelings about all the things and still stay sane, not to mention...
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