This #thankyouthursday, I am grateful for Advil. Well, more accurately, I am grateful for generic ibuprofen, since I don’t usually buy brand-name Advil. But off-brand or no, ibuprofen is really something, and I am really grateful for it. Pain meds are not always the...
#thankyouthursday gratitude (and other blog posts)
Caring community is so infinitely more satisfying than pseduo-solitude
To my caring community: If you don’t already get weekly #thankyouthursday emails from me, the below is a glimpse of what would have landed in your inbox this morning if you did. The subject line always completes the sentence “I am grateful for...” (Today’s subject...
I read Grace by Natashia Deón and it was uncomfortably similar to current events even though it takes place in the 1800s because racism is still going strong in America and can we please do something about this? Like, for real?
By the time my hold alert on Natashia Deón's Grace came through from the library, I'd forgotten why I'd requested it. No matter. I dug right in—and was depressed for the next three days while I read it. No question, the book is beautifully written. The story is...
On fresh starts and fitness and how leaving the country made me feel fat
I am grateful for fresh starts. Of course there's the whole back-to-school vibe happening, and summer is shifting into fall. But what's really making me feel renewed is that I left the country for a little bit. I went to Panama City When I came back, I made some...
A Love Warrior love letter from the devotee who wrote the Reading Group Guide
Glennon Doyle Melton’s astonishingly radiant book, Love Warrior, officially came out into the world on Tuesday, and for very good reason it is the new pick for Oprah’s Book Club. I hope everyone I know—and everyone I don’t know, for that matter—will read it, because...
That time my reluctant discipline made me cry in public and it was the best
Forget motivation. Reluctant discipline brings the greatest rewards. I'm sure there is an internet quote I should attribute for that insight; I know I saw something recently online, and whatever it was clearly stuck with me—just not well enough to get credit. At any...
Love is greater than fear, let’s not forget
Love is greater than fear. I know this. I tell you every time I write. I believe it with all my heart. Yesterday I wrote it on my wrist. It was impulsive; I grabbed a Sharpie on my way out the door because an old blog post of Glennon Doyle Melton's inspired me to give...
My plant’s new growth is an obvious metaphor for my own fears and faith
Sometimes I kill things. It never feels good and it's not always on purpose (although sometimes it is: RIP, mysterious winged bug in my bedroom whose life I very deliberately ended). Whether it's an untenable relationship or an insect with bad timing, I recognize...
How to abolish systemic racism using Netflix and Häagen-Dazs
Stranger Things might not seem like the cure for systemic racism. And, well, it probably isn't. But it is the cure for a stressed out brain that needs a break from processing the many facets of a deeply troubling and overwhelmingly complex problem. Savoring some Rocky...
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